It is necessary to keep a close eye on the response given by the guy while cuddling. Does he fall asleep or overhear you or show his interest while cuddling? Men also have a physical that may lead to the desire for mating. While questioning his interest in you, you should always have a solid reason depending on which you can put your questions across and clarify the misunderstandings, if any. One should always examine things very deeply.
Communication is the key to a beautiful relationship. It would be best if you always spent time discussing even the smallest thing amongst yourself. A talk or going out for lunch or dinner, having a proper conversation may clear all your doubts. If at any point during cuddling, you feel uncomfortable or uneasy, you have the right to stop him at the very moment.
No one has the authority to keep you at discomfort, and you should even not allow anyone to enter inside the boundaries you have set for them. It will be an intelligent move to talk to someone you already have faith in and seek their guidance along the way. As prevention is always better than cure, so it is better to stop than to regret.
Seeking professional help at some point in the relationship may become a necessity. Avoiding such help can prove fatal and destroy the relationship. One can look forward to licensed practitioners to cross some hurdles and barriers to strengthening their bond.
Online relationship counseling is a great way to get through even the most complex issues. Platonic cuddling means people can exchange their feeling and emotions with their opposite sex. It is the perfect form for a bored and lonely individual.
Guys hug from behind to show them that they can take all your responsibility by pulling you close to him. He is protecting you and making you feel wanted. Hugging someone for 20 seconds is the key to beating burnout and alleviating stress. It lowers your blood pressure, releases the hormone oxytocin, improves your mood, and slows your heart rate.
It is not essential to tell him, but not everyone is okay with their lover cuddling someone else for no good reason. Your email address will not be published. From when I was a little kid, my mom and grandma would always scratch my back to help me fall asleep at night, and now I have a sweet spot for when my girlfriend rubs or scratches my back.
Also, I think it's one of life's simple pleasures to just feel someone who you love's skin on your own. Kinda weird when you say it like that, but when you have passionate feelings for someone, just cuddling gives this satisfaction that nothing else sexual does. Like, my job is pretty high stress, and it feels good just to be able to hold someone and to be held. If I can snuggle up next to someone and just chill, maybe not even talk, it's peaceful and calming and gives the feeling that they care.
If you feel comfortable with the other person, it kind of just let's you relax and not have to do much physically. It's like a better version of a hug except you get to lay down while doing it. Also, if you're sleeping while cuddling, it can let you get closer with someone without any of the nerves from being around someone new. Plus it's a great way to play footsie with someone and who doesn't love that. I like being cuddled because it's sweet to have my back rubbed.
In our sleeping arrangement I fall asleep naturally facing the wall, and my girlfriend is the big spoon protecting me from the edge of the bed. I bet it looks pretty funny because my girlfriend is tiny, but the heart wants what the heart wants.
We cuddle and talk a little bit. Finally, it can get downright hot, and I like to sleep in a nearly freezing environment, so it keeps me awake. Share Facebook. Is it normal to cuddle with a friend of the opposite sex? Add Opinion. Me and my best friends Jess and Iz always cuddle! Often we'll go to my dads house, stick the TV on, get the wine out, get the big blanket out and all 3 of us or 2 if one of them can't make it and cuddle up tight and watch the box all night really providing our own entertainment because, well we're just that funny xD.
I suppose some would find it strange but tbh, there's no other way is rather spend a wintery Saturday night! I am straight by the way and there has been cuddle hard-ons but I'm just that close with them, I've even told them in the past and they've just laughed and eventually it goes haha. Is this still revelant? You're going to marry one of them. Just watch. LordDeath Xper 2. I think its ok as long as you trust them and you genuinely care about the person.
Everyone needs that closeness to feel like someones there or they just need to feel love. Shit i would love to cuddle now. But at the same time. There's something there that drawing you towards that person. I'm sure you or anyone else is just going to cuddle with just anyone.
I'm sure there not getting all cuddly with there other male friends. There's something that always draw each other together. This reminds me of what they do in the movies! A bit like Jennifer Aniston cuddling up to a guy best friend. But yes in real life I think the guy would eventually think of it as something more.
I can understand that you may think of it as harmless affection but some where down the lines I think one or both of you will start develop feelings for each other. There's something about the physical touch that brings about a certain closeness and bond to each other.
Good luck! MaskofInsanity Guru. It's not normal, but it's not unheard of. I'm like that with my roommates. For anyone who says some of us are harbouring secret feelings - no.
Just no. Sign Up Now! Related Questions. Show All. Is it normal to cuddle with a guy friend? Is it normal for girls to cuddle their guy friends or do they want to be more than friends?
Is it normal to cuddle with your best friend of the opposite sex? Would you cuddle with a friend? Sort Girls First Guys First. It can't last very long before the guy gets a boner As a girl we love being held and if he smells good, it is so easy to give into feelings and one friendly kiss on the cheek soon becomes one on the lips and passion kicks in. This happened to a long distance boyfriend I had.
He cuddled with a friend coz I wasn't there and over 4 mos through became close and "missing" me and her missing her boyfriend, they got wrapped up in the "moment" and a kiss went on too long. After sweaty passionate clothes ripped off sex, both felt guilty, but laying there naked together, they said it was only "relief", nothing more. Had Sex again for several hours right away. Said it meant nothing. Next day both felt guilty, got together to talk about how wrong it was, passion kicked in and a kiss put them in bed acting out the 2 Backed Beast.
Truer words could not have been said. I used to do that with my best friend when I was single. Never liked the guy. Actually, I even dated his brother for almost a year. I also slept the whole night -literally sleep only- with my other best friend when I was a teenager. We share the bed and hug each other but that was it.
Not in my book, think of it this way, is it something you'd think is OK for someone in a relationship to be doing? Cuddling up with their best friend of the opposite sex? I don't think so. There's nothing wrong with it, but it's not friend behavior, unless you both want more, don't be surprised if this leads to a messy situation,.
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